rules

1. Protecting minors. Any sexual content involving or aimed at minors is forbidden. Flirting with members under 18 is forbidden, in the chat and in DMs.

   Penalty: ban.

2. Violence. Condoning rape, pedophilia, zoophilia or necrophilia, and threatening members, are forbidden.

   Penalty: ban.

3. Doxxing. Revealing a member’s identity, photos, address, school or workplace without their consent is forbidden.

   Penalty: ban.

4. Cyberbullying. Spreading offensive material about members, stalking them, or harassing them in the chat or outside it is forbidden.

   Penalty: ban.

5. Chasing. It is forbidden to:

   • use the chat only to find a partner or a sexual encounter;
   • leave objectifying comments about members’ looks and bodies without their consent;
   • mass-DM members with flirting or offers to meet up;
   • question members about their bodies, sex lives, etc.;
   • reduce your interaction with a member to their looks, or to them being a femboy.

   Penalty: ban.

6. Disrespecting members. Don’t insult or belittle others because of their sex, gender, orientation, nationality, race, interests, tastes, appearance, congenital traits or health problems.

   Penalty: warning; ban in serious cases.

7. Hate propaganda. Don’t promote hatred of groups of people, religions, customs or traditions, push radical ideologies, or encourage self-destructive behavior.

   Penalty: warning; ban in serious cases.

8. DMs only with consent. Before you message a member privately, ask for permission in the main chat or in Introductions, and wait for an answer.

   If someone DMs you without consent, or keeps writing after you’ve said no, tell the admins and include a screenshot.

   Penalty: warning or ban, depending on what the messages say.

9. Know when to stop. If a member asks you to stop doing something aimed at them (jokes, nicknames, comments, stickers, pictures, pushy messages), stop immediately.

   Penalty: warning, mute or ban, depending on how serious it is.

10. No nudity. Posting sexual photos, videos, stickers, gifs or text in the chat, or links to them, is forbidden.

    Penalty: warning and a 3-hour mute.

11. Disturbing content. Posting violence, cruelty to people or animals, gore, explosions, war footage or other content that is hard on mental health is forbidden.

    Penalty: warning.

12. Personal attacks and insults are forbidden.

    Penalty: 8-hour mute for whoever made it personal, or kept going after an admin asked them to stop.

13. No spam. Don’t send 5 or more identical messages in a row, or use bot commands more than 10 times a minute.

    Penalty: 3-hour mute.

14. Only invite people you know personally, who are coming for the community and not for dating or a laugh. Whoever invites someone is responsible for them.

    Penalty: ban for the invited rule-breaker, warning for whoever invited them.

If you see someone breaking any of these rules, DM the admins or use the report form.

warnings

3 warnings = ban.
A warning lasts 30 days.